What is the projection?
The one that you keep pushing on others around you.
The control you need to have.
The style you need to see.
The personality you want to shape.
What are the details of what energy you’re shedding to the world around you, in your words and in your force?
The things you may be projecting on others are the things you may be seeking & wanting to witness yourself, within.
An urge for a clearer message; instilled silence in order to be truly heard; space given to deeply feel something beautiful..
And sometimes even a desire to stand up for what you believe, or to dedicate yourself to one detailed thing to gain expert status. And push those to do the same.
Or it’s belief - belief that you can only accept those with greatness attached to their name, or associate with the highest caliber of material things.
Have you looked within this to see what you may want of yourself? What you may be pushing away in fear, or pulling closer to you for comfort?
What you may be placing on others, but truly are seeking something deeper within yourself?
You may want to be the messenger - to be the beauty - the expert - the Queen - to be the Great.
So why do we project onto others and push them to become what we may want for ourselves?
When we don’t usually do it for ourselves?
Is it something we mindfully do?
Or, could we look at it as a way that we are sending ourselves the message, the note, the clue — that this is who we seek to be deep down.
The first question to reflect on is - is this truly what we want, or is this someone else’s story or belief we have adopted?
Do we want to be great because Dad told us so?
Do we need to feel handsome or perfect because we saw it in a magazine?
Do we need to be an expert because otherwise we feel irrelevant?
Or are our deepest desires from our own, true heart.
Do we want a clearer message because we have misunderstood too many times?
Do we seek out beauty because beauty comes with achieving inner health?
Do we aim to learn and grow and teach on a daily basis because it makes us better?
These messages will come up in the way that you exert your energy - and in your control.
Then the next step is to start, restart, and start again - what you truly want to be doing with YOURself.
Watch for the things you push - because you may be your greatest teacher in your life.